Traditionally, proposals have been seen as something men do—but times have changed! Women are now popping the question too, and it’s not just within the LGBTQ+ community. If you’re thinking about how to propose to your boyfriend, here’s how to plan a moment that’s personal, meaningful, and does not turn into a nightmare!
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Make Sure You're on the Same Page About Marriage
Talk openly about marriage, commitment, and life goals.
Does he want to get married?
When does he see that happening?
What kind of future does he imagine?
A proposal can be a surprise, but the idea of marriage (and the answer) shouldn’t be.
Make Sure He’s Open to Being Proposed To
Breaking traditions can be exciting, but some men still dream of being the one to propose—and that’s totally okay!
To gauge his thoughts, casually bring up the idea of women proposing. Maybe mention a story you read or ask what he thinks about it. His reaction will give you a strong hint about whether this is the right move for your relationship.
(Warning: If he starts daydreaming about his own proposal plans, it might be a sign he’s not ready for you to steal the spotlight yet!) 😉
Think about his personality—does he value tradition? Does he like taking the lead on big decisions? Does he enjoy making surprises? If so, he might prefer being the one to propose. But remember, even if he leans traditional, he may still love the idea of you popping the question! The key is understanding what feels right for both of you. So, it is still worth it subtly asking.
Once those big questions turn into certainties, the fun part begins—you can finally start planning!
Pick a Meaningful Location
The setting can make the proposal even more special! Choose a place that reflects your relationship and his personality, such as:
Where you first met
A favorite travel spot
A destination he’s always wanted to visit
A cozy, private setting
A public, romantic place (if he loves grand gestures!)
Make sure it’s somewhere that makes him feel comfortable and celebrated! Bonus points if the location has snacks. Because, let’s be honest, we all love a good snack after the big moment!
Decide on a Symbol of Commitment
While not all guys want a traditional ring, there are plenty of meaningful alternatives: a commitment band, a watch, a bracelet, or similar - something that fits his style. If he’s the type to wear a watch more than a ring, go with that. You don’t want him to feel like he’s been forced to wear jewelry—unless he’s into that, in which case, go ahead, sparkle away!
And no one said that you have to skip the ring either! Many couples where the woman proposes end up picking out an engagement ring for her together afterward.
Plan What You’ll Say
Men love to feel appreciated (who doesn’t?). Keep your proposal simple, heartfelt, and personal. Maybe reflect on your journey together and why you want to spend forever with him.
Trust me, he’ll want to say "yes" so fast, he might just start saying it before you even finish! So, keep it sweet and short.
Capture the Moment
Do you want this to be a private memory or something you’ll look back on forever? Here are a few ways to document the moment:
Hire a photographer for a surprise engagement shoot.
Set up your phone to record it yourself.
Ask a close friend or family member to discreetly capture the moment.
Celebrate!
After he says “yes,” make sure to celebrate in a way that feels special to both of you!
Activities that you love doing together, food that you never get tired of, people that you want to include -no matter how you do it, make sure it’s a moment filled with love, joy, and excitement for the future!
And don’t forget to celebrate with a sweet desert—because they make everything better. Proposal stress? Chocolate bar. Planning? Cake. he said 'Yes"? ...you get the idea.
In case he got slightly disappointed...
If you’ve nailed the proposal and he’s happy—and he said “yes”—but maybe even later admits he wanted to propose too, why not? Many couples nowadays practice double proposals. And honestly, that’s the secret to a happy marriage: always be open to both ways. Don’t feel constrained by social norms—some of them can be bent or even broken! It’s about what feels right for you both. After all, love doesn’t follow rules—it creates its own.
Would You Dare to Propose to Your Boyfriend?
Absolutely! I’m ready to pop the question!
Maybe... I like the idea, but need to work up the courage.
Not a chance. I’d rather wait for him to propose.
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